Ultimate Love Game

People tend to forget this number one game in love.

In my early 20s, I have learned many things to help me improve myself. One of the best lessons that I ever had from people around me was how important love when it came to our life. But, it is not a random "love" word. It is a love that people may not be doing well lately. It is called Self Love.

How many are you want to improve your self-love game? This game is not designed to win by others, but only by ourselves. We are the first player to involve in this game before somebody else come. I don't know about you guys, but I am here to win. The question is really, how? Winning this game, you need to understand this basic principal

You can't wait to be the best version of yourself to do it. You must do this game today. You must love yourself when you don't think there is love to spend here

Let's be clear, why we must love ourselves when we think we don't deserve such kind of thing? I remembered when I was born, my parents gave me a name called "Providana". Providana comes from the term providence, which means "the protective care of God". My parents always want the best things to happen to me, including love itself. They don't want bad things to happen to me. They wanted me to feel safe, to feel love. They taught me that I deserve to be loved always by God. When God loves you, I think there is no other reason to love yourself today.

But, if you guys want to insist on other reasons about this topic, maybe I have some to help you understand furthermore.

1. You only have you.

I believe that your parents and your family love you no matter who you are. Your mother may say that you are a good person, even if you are a bad one. But, they can't help you when you destroy the best two things that God gave you when you came to this world, your body and your mind. Those things can't be replaced (until now) by anyone, even by the person that loves you the most. You must take care of it. You must also understand how your body and your minds work to keep doing something good in this world.

2. You are enough

When it came to terms of love or relationship, we tend to believe other people may need someone better than ourselves. Sometimes, we think that when we fail at something, or we didn't look like others, our value just drops near zero. We will try to drag ourselves enter the realm of the darkness, and we stay a long time to feel bad about ourselves. We forget that no one in this world is perfect. They have a flaw, they may be failed at some things, and they also did bad things to other people. It is okay to have that moment when we didn't perform well. You must remember, if you want to do it better today, you still need your body and your mind. God gave us the best mechanism to survive in this world, and it is called will. When you have your will to be the best, you may start your journey by taking care of yourself.

3. Don't judge yourself too harshly

We tried our best to help each other. We make sure others reach their success so they could feel happy. Don't forget to do that kind of thing to yourself too. You also need what you gave to other people. Your time, your energy, your word, your wisdom, your kindness, yourself.