The Art of Letting Go

The word let someone go is not just a word, but is an art in itself for its users

For all of us who have been through good times relating to someone and that beautiful relationship must end, or have ever passed time loving someone but the feelings we have are not reciprocated, the words let go of being the words we have ever heard.

For all the extraordinary warriors out there, letting go was never an easy word. It takes a lot of understanding, practice, and also a willingness to be able to master the word letting go.

The art of letting go is something we should pay more attention to because separation often occurs when we least expect it. Often, separation comes when other problems start to arise. Therefore, understanding this part of the art of letting go, can help you all save time to be able to focus on other problems that occur in your friends' lives. This art includes some crucial things that we must understand together, and hopefully, it can help friends well in dealing with separation.

1. Stop living in your imagination

Imagination is something we need in our lives. The ability of a person's imagination can help that person in creating new things that can help us all. However, in this art of letting go, imagination is the last thing we have to do. No matter how good someone is, surely that person has things that are detrimental to us too. Maybe that person is good when everyday, but when there is a problem, he releases fatigue with alcoholic drinks, then becomes someone who commits violence in you. Another example might be that someone is a very compassionate person, but when angry he often hits his friends. There are many other examples that we must observe that our imagination of the perfect partner has never been achieved. Such things only remain in our imagination. When we get out of a relationship, or when love is not reciprocated, friends immediately reduce the imagination of friends about how perfect the partner that has ever been in our lives

2. Sometimes "no" mean "no"

This point applies to someone whose love is not reciprocated by someone. When we already know someone's answer about our desires, we often feel curious that one day maybe that answer might change. This happens to many people, including the author and one of the writer's friends. My friend's writer tries to reach out to his ideal woman, who clearly said no from the start. It has been almost 10 years that the answer has not changed, and he has missed many opportunities with other women. In some cases, the word impossible can change to yes. However, in most cases, the word unlikely helps us see the bigger picture, that there are many others out there.

3. He/She is my soulmate

Point number 3 is closely related to point number 1. Often, when writers help cheer up friends who are sad because they are rejected or separated, the reason I often hear is, what if she is my soul mate? what if he's someone who is destined to be with me ?. One thing we have to underline, when he is your destiny, in the end, you can be together. If it's not friends' destiny, no matter what we do, the result will be a breakup

4. Don't forget our friends

This point is quite important because, when we are focused on ourselves, we often forget we have good people out there who want to help us. We forget them all because we often underestimate their influence on our lives. The author reminds us that there is no place that is safer and more comfortable than a place where we are accepted by the people around us. Apart from family, of course, our best friends will be in a place that is easy for us to visit. Besides being easy to find, friends certainly have interesting views on events that friends have just experienced.