High Value Man

Ever wondered how someone became so admired and respected?

What first comes to your mind when you hear the word Microsoft? Apple? or Tesla? Maybe some of us are very accustomed to using their products in our daily lives. For those of you who don't know, the three words above are three of the hundreds of well-known companies that have a very big influence around the world.

When we talk about leaders, especially male leaders who can make their company grow rapidly, are they born with something in particular?

There is nothing that distinguishes us as readers from them as company leaders. We are both human.

There are many things that we have in common with them. I want to take a more broad look at the leaders of this company by saying that they have been successful.

One thing that I knows is that the success of everyone cannot be measured by material alone. Everyone's success is different because no two people in this world have 100% the same thing, not even twins. Regarding success itself, according to the author, several things can make people successful (they can be in any form) and can be easily done without exception. For men, especially those who are struggling in their pursuit of success, I wants to provide the factors that can help in pursuing that success. When People can try to change and keep getting better, I am happy to tell you that you have succeeded in becoming High-Value Man.

What exactly is meant by High-Value Man? During the 5 years of studying at Padjadjaran University, I have met more than 300 men. All the meetings experienced make me believe that it is not certain that when a person is born into a man, he automatically has the characteristics of a High-Value Man. For readers, don't immediately feel disappointed, because every man can certainly become a High-Value Man. One can be said to have become a High-Value Man when he can control what goes on in his mind. A High-Value Man will always keep himself optimistic, keep doing what is needed, and still know when to rest.

For those who want to become someone better, can try some of these tips

1. Know yourself, your shortcomings, and strengths to the smallest extent

As we know, one of the main characteristics that a High-Value Man has is optimism in everything... A High-Value Man knows himself very well so that when he gets certain obligations, the High-Value Man knows how to maximize his potential, and how. can learn to improve the weaknesses they have. This is of course the key to how a High-Value Man can truly provide optimal results from the obligations given to him

2. Able to create schedules and routines every day

A High-Value Man cannot always complete an obligation on time if he does not have a well-managed routine every day. Routines in question include working, exercising, eating, resting, and playing. Every routine that is carried out is given the best possible opportunity so that he can enjoy the time available because we know that time cannot be repeated twice.

3.System> target

I finally found a question that never occurred to me in a book called Atomic habit was written by James Clear. The question is what do a person who fails and who is successful have in common? The answer to that question is the target. For example, 2 men want to lose 10 kg for 2 months. After 2 months passed, male 1 managed to lose 11 kg, and man 2 managed to lose 9 kg. The two men who either succeeded or had not reached the target proved that the target was not the difference. According to James Clear himself, what influences a person to be successful is the system, or how to strive for success. Man A may exercise 1 hour a day on a strict diet, while Male B exercise 45 minutes a day on a makeshift diet. When we manage to improve and find a system that fits us well, we will get used to being able to always try and become a High-Value Man

4. Change what can be changed, and accept what can not be changed

The fourth point is the last and is quite important for all of us to have so that we can become High-Value Man. This fourth point teaches that there are things that are beyond our control, so when we can't change them to the way we want, we just accept them gracefully. When we have the opportunity to do something, a High-Value Man will take the opportunity as soon as possible and do it

The 4 points above the authors hope to help friends achieve success and become High-Value Man. Don't forget to be grateful and provide support for others who are trying to become High-Value Man too.